Priya Rajendran
“The early bird gets the worm”. We all learned this proverb in school. It applies to every walk of life. In the case of children, this adage gains more significance as they cross various milestones in life.
There are some habits or values which we want our kids to imbibe early. These are called modelled habits. For instance, just like brushing teeth twice a day, eating three meals a day (differs in every culture and community), having a bath is important, we should have book reading sessions daily too.
Books are great to enhance imagination and engage a child constructively. Stories help children develop their own plots, characters and even help in developing role-plays. Authors have an amazing ability to weave stories, plots, characters and a vast range of imagination in a child.
Most of the time kids these days would prefer the screen. The attention span of a child depends on the amount of time spent in front of the screen – definitely quite short these days! Another disadvantage of the visual medium is that it has the ability to kill the creativity of a child because it shows the entire story on screen, leaving little to imagination. Whilst reading a book, the same child is compelled to imagine the scene, the plot, characters, seasons and sometimes even a piece of music mentioned by the author.
Reading helps in writing and developing other fine arts at a later stage. As you read each word, it gets embedded in the memory and helps in word-picture association at a later stage. The child will be able to do his projects effectively and without help. He will use these early associations (from his or her early reading sessions) during his learning sessions at home/or school. In effect, it helps in enriching vocabulary – pictorial, verbal and written.
The earlier you take to reading, the more it will help during your early learning years as well as professional life. You cannot develop love for books overnight especially after you have become adults. If you notice some people around you say that they do not like books, one of the main reasons is that they were never encouraged to read when they were small or they were pushed into academics by parents saying reading books is a waste of time! I am sure most of you reading this will be able to relate to this.
So begin as early as possible – as early as when your child is curious to explore coloured flyers/newspapers/books or magazines. Do not kill that curiosity with your concern that they will tear the book to pieces. Slowly inculcate the habit by showing pictures, sitting with your children and eventually they will understand why books are lovely and they should not damage them.
Reading is a life-long gift for your child!
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